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Archive for March, 2007

Ava and I had our first "day" alone together yesterday.  My mom and grandma left on Tuesday and I really miss having them here, but Ava and I did fine on our own.

She is seriously the best baby ever.  She never cries, except when she wakes up (and I usually pick her up before she lets out more than a few squawks :) ) and once in awhile when she's getting her diaper changed (only if she's hungry when I'm trying to change her).  She's had two baths since we've been home and she loved both of them.  We're still trying to get her days and nights "un-mixed-up", though.  She'll sleep 4 hours at a time during the day, but only 2-3 at night.  So today I've been waking her up every 2 hours.  Hopefully she'll sleep better tonight.  Oh, and she *loves* having her back scratched.  She'll lay on her side on my lap for a long time if I'm scratching her back.

She's also a great breast-feeder.  She got the hang on latching on pretty quickly and she's almost back up to her birth weight.  When I took her to the breastfeeding clinic on Saturday, she was 7 lbs 1 oz…on Monday she was 7lbs 6 oz….and yesterday she was 7 lbs 8 oz.  She gets about 1 1/2 oz when she eats, too, so she's doing really well.  She has her first doctor appointment next Wednesday, and the nurses at the breastfeeding clinic said her doctor will be thrilled with her weight gain.

We took some more pictures and another video this morning, too, so they're in her photobucket.  They're in her newest album…"Ava Second Week".  I can't believe she's 8 days old already!!

Twenty Things That Change

1. You look at your baby in the mirror instead of yourself.

2. You finally stop to smell the roses, because your baby is in your arms.

3. Where you once believed you were fearless, you now find yourself afraid.

4. You're less self-involved and more self-motivated.

5. The sacrifices you thought you made to have a child no longer seem like sacrifices.

6. You respect your body…finally.  (Hooray for baby-making!)

7. You have stronger opinions and are stronger willed.

8. You respect your parents and love them in a new way.  (Hooray for grandparents!)

9. You find that your baby's pain feels much worse than your own.

10. You believe once again in the things you believed in as a child.  (Hooray for the tooth fairy!)

11. You lose touch with the people in your life that you should have banished years ago.

12. Your heart breaks much more easily.

13. You think of your baby 234,836,178,976 times a day.  In fact, you're so busy with this that you forget everything else.

14. Every day is a surprise.

15. Bodily functions are no longer repulsive.  In fact, they please you.  (Hooray for poop!) 

16. You think before you speak.

17. You become a morning person.  (Hooray for watching the sun rise!)

18. If you have a son, you no longer curse men.  (Hooray for all men!)

19. If you have a daughter, you hope she won't endure your same heartaches.

20. Your love becomes limitless, a superhuman power. 

Ava’s Photobucket

I added a link on my sidebar to Ava's Photobucket site.  Since this one doesn't have our last name or anything on it, it's a public one, so you don't need a password to get into it.  I'm still adding pictures to it, and I want to add her ultrasound pictures and my belly pictures to it, but it already has a bunch in there.

I have a ton of Ava pictures and a video uploaded to my Photobucket site.  The link is on the sidebar of my blog and the Friend's Password is babyava.  (I tried uploading them to my Photo Gallery, but it was way too slow….)

Ava Loren was born on March 21, 2007 at 7:16 PM.  She weighed 7 lbs 11 oz and was 20 inches long.  We just got home a couple of hours ago and we're settling in pretty well.  I will post the birth story and pictures as soon as I can. Laughing You can see her picture at http://www.stormontvail.org/ Click on "Visit our Newborns" and "Our Newest Arrivals".  When you get to the list, you're looking for "Ava L."  We also had professional pictures taken this morning and I've posted them in My Photos.  Those are the only ones in there so far, though….I'll have to get the ones off of my camera in the next few days.

No, I'm not in labor yet.  But, I think the baby might have dropped.  I say might because there were a couple of other times I thought she had dropped, but she hadn't.  So don't hold me to this.  I don't really have a ton of pressure like other people have said they did, but my inner thighs hurt so much….like they're sore from working too hard, but I haven't done anything out of the ordinary with them.  Plus, we used to be able to feel her rear end really high up in my stomach (almost at my chest), but now I feel it a few inches above my belly button (maybe 4-5 inches above it).  Last night, I was having a lot of contractions at the top of my belly, so we think that might have been what pushed her down finally.  But I go to the doctor on Thursday, so we'll find out for sure then.

I'm starting to get bored.  I've finished almost all the projects I wanted to get done before she came (except the cross-stitch and I'm almost done with that).  I don't want to start any new projects like a quilt or something because I know I won't be able to finish it before she gets here.

I checked the 10-day forecast last night and every single day had either a thundercloud or rainclouds next to it.  If it really rains for the next 10 days, they will have to put me in the looney bin.  Not only will I be really crabby and depressed because it's so yucky outside, Buddy will have to be inside with me all day and I don't think either of us is ready for that.  He will be driving me nuts by the end of the first day, especially with all the mud he drags in all over the floor.  If that forecast doesn't change, I will be needing prayers for my sanity.

I have come to the conclusion that nothing gets labor started except the baby deciding she's ready to come.  I was actually sitting on the washing machine during its spin cycle yesterday because someone said it worked for her.  And when it was done spinning, I started the spin cycle over again. Tongue out I have no more tricks up my sleeve.  I'm just going to have to sit here and wait for her to decide to come, because nothing I've tried has worked.

I started deleavening today.  I have all the leavening out of the cupboards and on the table, so we know what we have to eat/use up and I have the cupboards that had leavening in them swept and wiped out.  I'll probably wipe out the rest of the cupboards, too, but that's not as urgent.  I also have the freezer wiped out and all the leavened things on one side.  I started to do the fridge, but I hate cleaning out the fridge and there was still a lot of leavened stuff in there, so I put it off for now.  Plus, I ran out of energy.  But at least I started.  I'm not really worried about the rest of the house because Chad will have to help with moving furniture anyway, so if I have the baby before we get to it, he might as well vacuum under it, too. LaughingTongue out

Chad has given the baby his permission for her to come today. Tongue out Before, he said she had to wait until he was done with his route for the week.  So I've been doing everything I can think of today.  I drank the cumin tea, but I wasn't able to finish the very bottom of the cup….I kept gagging….it was really disgusting.  I've also scrubbed all the floors on my hands and knees and I'm going to scrub the bathtub in a few minutes (I've heard people swear that this gets labor going).  And I'm going to take Buddy for another walk later (I've been walking with him everyday to try and get labor started).  And of course I've been bouncing.  With everything I've tried, SOMETHING has to get this started.

No baby yet.  I'm still here bouncing away on that exercise ball.  I thought I might be going into labor last night, but the contractions stopped.  Today I don't feel very good either, but I haven't been having many contractions, so I don't think she's coming tonight either.  I'll keep bouncing, though….

I just got back from the doctor.  I am dilated to 3 cm for sure now (last time I was at a 2, and he could stretch it to a 3), 80% effaced, but Ava's head is still at -3 station.  As soon as I was done at the doctor, I went straight to Wal-Mart to buy an exercise ball to bounce on to try to get her head to drop.  As soon as her head drops, I'm pretty sure I'll go into labor, since my cervix seems completely ready.  I also bought some cumin so I can make cumin tea (blech)….that's supposed to be a natural way to induce labor if the baby is ready.  I was reading about it online and it said that cumin tea is gentle and virtually free of side effects.  I guess it can't hurt….if she's not ready, it won't do anything, although it said that it also makes labor easier and helps with lactation after the baby comes.  I'm not really looking forward to actually drinking it, though….I drank it with my mom one time when she was pregnant and it's disgusting!

Anyway, I can't bounce while I'm typing because I keep hitting the wrong keys, so I'm going to go now.  Hopefully all this bouncing will actually do something!

My photo gallery is being really stupid and won't let me upload my 37-week belly pictures, so you'll have to look at them at my photobucket site:

http://s47.photobucket.com/albums/f195/LoraMortier/

It will ask you for a password….the Friend's Password is BabyAva.  I also have a few new pictures in the Baby Shower album from the shower down here.